It’s called the “Harmless” category, and once you’re in this, I can attest to you that it is VERY DIFFICULT to get out of if you’re trying to make a friend a girlfriend?

Why? Because if you got put in the friend zone, most of the times you actually had a chance with her romantically — you just fucked things up along the way and landed where you are. However, the Harmless category means that she — along with everyone else — understands that you absolutely have no chance in hell whatsoever to get with the woman.

So what are the types of guys that women consider to be harmless?

Gay guys: Ever notice that women tend to flock to the gay guy? A lot of times there’s a lot of flirting going on between them. Women do this because they believe that he is Harmless. He’s safe. They do the same with guys who COULD be gay as well.

Too young: When I was a kid, I had crushes on women MUCH older than me. I’m talking a 5 year old kid bantering with 18, 19 year olds in a very flirtatious manner. Often times, they would express how cute they found me and plant a kiss on my cheek. Naturally I thought I was a stud. But now I understand — they do this because they saw me as Harmless.

Too old: The same goes for guys in this category. Once men get in a certain age range, the possibility of sparks happening between him and a younger woman just becomes nil. I see this a lot in the office, where I sit behind a friend who every guy seems to think is a flirting target. She doesn’t respond to most of them, but she flirts back with the older guys. When I teased her one day about it, she calmly retorted, “Well, it’s nothing. He’s too old and pretty much Harmless.” Nuff said.

Taken: In my quest to discover how to make a friend a girlfriend, I always wondered why the hell women who liked me seemed to be in abundance whenever I’m in a relationship. When you have a girlfriend or are married, women seem to think that it’s okay to flirt with you, simply because she thinks that it’s okay.

Physically uncared for: If a man is morbidly obese, very poorly groomed or extremely unattractive in one way or the other, he is considered to be Harmless most of the time. What’s funny is that USUALLY more attractive women will flirt back with people from this category, especially if she’s outgoing. That’s because she knows that he probably thinks she’s out of his league, thus justifying in her head that it’s okay to flirt.

Weak personality: Guys who are extremely shy or have poor social skills are also considered to be Harmless by women, which explains why they often receive extra attention from the sweet/outgoing ones. Why? This is a woman’s nurturing side — they know that he probably gets no female attention from others, so they want to somewhat “take care of him” by smiling at them and giving them hugs. After all, they probably don’t have to guts to try anything on them.

If you’re wondering why she gave you the “let’s just be friends” line even if she was flirting back and forth with you, then this explains why. She was flirting because she thought you were harmless, but the moment that you expressed interest, she went running for the hills.

If you want to know how to make a friend a girlfriend, then the first four categories you sadly can’t do anything about. It’s the last two that you can. Focus on getting yourself in the best shape that you can (and no, round is NOT in shape) and improve your social skills, and your success in women will multiply tenfold.

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