Well, I’m here to tell you that this is absolutely false.

I’m going to list 10 basic commandments that you should follow if you want to have any chance whatsoever of escaping the friend zone.

1.) Thou shall not approach her in hopes of being friends first. When you first meet a woman, you know instantly whether you’re interested in her or not. Decide right away and do not make the mistake of planting yourself down as a friend. Take bold actions and NEVER ask for permission to do anything — it is better to apologize later than to ask permission now.

2.) Thou shall not wait for the perfect moment to do something. As forward as women may be these days, rare is the instance when she will be the first one to make a move. You are the man, and men don’t wait for movie moments to make something happen. Many times, you will find that she is actually giving you the hints to make a move — signs that you are too oblivious to pick up on. He who hesitates masturbates.

3.) Thou shall not make your interest too obvious. Escaping the friend zone means being a flirt and making her lie awake at night trying to guess what it is you’re up to. Show interest, but at the same time let her know that you are a man who are interested in other females as well. This is what “playing the game” means.

4.) Thou shall not put all your eggs in one basket. She might be the girl of your dreams, but you cannot be sure if you’re hers. Start pursuing other options while “working” your magic on her. Not only will you increase the odds of getting in a great relationship, but you also make her jealous.

5.) Thou shall not always be available. Your idea of a good time must NOT be dependent on her availability. You are a man who has a life outside of her. Say no to her invitations and break a date every so often; lie if you must (but read next point).

6.) Thou shall not get caught in a lie. Yes, it’s important to actually be busy and having a good time and doing all sorts of fun activities without her, but it all falls into shambles if she catches you lying.

7.) Thou shall not be a Harmless man. You need to make her see you as a man with sexual value. In other words, you dress well, have social status, are desired by other women, and that you are a regular male who does not suppress (but rather expresses) his sexual energy. Human beings always want what they can’t have.

8.) Thou shall not change your good qualities. If you’re already friends with a woman, she already likes you for who you are. You just need to amplify certain traits of your personality — namely, your sexuality. You can’t turn into an absolute jerk if you’ve been Mr. Nice Guy your entire life — engage in flirtatious banter, but keeping it light and playful, never just cocky.

9.) Thou shall pay attention to what she RESPONDS to, not what she says. Women have a habit to say they want something, but respond to a completely other thing. That’s why most women will say that she wants a nice guy for a boyfriend, but always ends up dating a jerk. Instead, pay attention to the traits and qualities in a man that she positively responds to, and add that on to your arsenal.

10.) Thou shall not give up too soon. Persistence pays off in this game. We will never truly know ALL the reasons why women decide to be “just friends” with a man, but we try to cover as much of it as possible. Keep going until you see fit, and you will be escaping the friend zone in no time at all.

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Unfortunately, if you’re in the “just friends” category then the chances of her being physically attracted to you are quite slim.

If there’s one technique that I treasure the most when it comes to avoiding the friend zone it’s what I call the ESV technique, or Establishing Sexual Value. Doing this does wonders for increasing both the physical attraction and emotional connection between you two. The beauty of it is that running ESV on a friend you’re interested in romantically and/or sexually is quite simple.

Imagine this for a moment: when she starts talking about other guys to you (how cute they are, how good they looked in that shirt, etc.) what do you do?

Most men will just quietly sit there and listen to the girl of their dreams yap about some other guy that makes them all hot. They get bothered and flustered, and have no idea how to react, so they do nothing.

Running the ESV technique simply means that you stop doing that IMMEDIATELY and responding back with your own story.

Why? Because by talking to you about other guys, it’s an indication that for her, you have low (or even zero) sexual value. And by saying nothing in return, you are not helping increase your own sexual value. And as a man who is interested in her, you cannot afford to do this. When you respond back with a sexual story of your own, however, she will automatically get feelings of jealousy — and that is to your advantage.

If you want to know how turn a friend to a girlfriend, then you’re going to need to develop sexual attraction from her (I talk about this in “Escaping The Friend Zone” in detail). So the idea of the ESV technique is to turn the tables on her and start talking about other women.

How does it work? Well, chances are that the girl of your dreams has an idea that you’re interested in her romantically. Maybe not consciously, but a woman’s intuition is sharp enough to know who’s interested in them and who isn’t. She’s used to getting attention to you in a platonic sort of way, and she enjoys it.

By cutting off that subtle attention you’re giving her and putting it somewhere else (by talking about other women), you are effectively cutting off her source of good feelings. Her happy source will suddenly disappear. And because getting attention from someone induces all sorts of addictive chemicals in the brain, she will want to get that attention back. That’s why jealousy, in most cases, make someone more attached to a person.

Of course, she’s not going to know what’s happening to her. She’s simply going to want to get you back on focusing on her, and she’s not really going to know or understand why. She will start developing feelings of unconscious attraction — and my friend, unconscious attraction ALWAYS TRUMPS conscious attraction any day.

So what do you do? It’s simple. When she starts talking about other guys, stay calm and listen patiently. When your turn to talk comes, calmly mention your story as a way to relate to her. Be extremely descriptive — just about to the point when she starts to get uncomfortable.

This works beautifully because by telling your story in response, she’s forced to listen to it. And by being graphic about the details, she won’t be able to help but picture you in her head along with your story. Women love fairy tales, and they excercise their imaginations by daydreaming and fantasizing.

She WILL picture you in her head, and this does WONDERS in establishing your sexual value and avoiding the friend zone. All of a sudden, harmless Joe becomes sexy stud. You know that you are successful when she 1.) tells you that you are too graphic, 2.) appears withdrawn or there’s a moment of silence, or 3.) she attacks the girl in your story in some way or form (it’s a defensive mechanism that tells you it worked).

If you want to know how to avoid the friend zone, then making her jealous and running the ESV technique will do wonders. She will see you as a sexual creature instead of just a harmless nobody — and women get together with guys they can see themselves having sexual intimacy with. So do yourself some favors and start making some women jealous today!

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