This is a basic truth that you must understand if you want to have a chance to turn a friend into a girlfriend. Think about this for a minute; isn’t this something that you do yourself?

For example… Your close friends family is in the personal category, who knows everything about you. Your other set of friends is in another, basically sharing your social life with. They don’t necessarily know everything about you, but you enjoy doing the same activities together. At the same time, you have people who belong in the professional category. These are people you go to work or school with.

These categories stay in place, and once someone’s has defined their place in it, you don’t mix and match them. Coworkers stay as coworkers, friends stay as friends, and family stays as family. Wouldn’t you find it weird if a coworker you’ve never spoken to before suddenly starts being chummy with you and acting like he’s part of your social life?

Now here’s what you need to get. The main difference between men and women is this: women actually have a separate category for romantic interests, while men tend to blur the romance category in between professional and social categories. In other words, we have just three categories, while women have four.

Men will tend to pluck their romantic interests from the personal, social or professional category and keep them there. Meanwhile, a woman consciously decides whether you are deserving to be put in the romantic category before she even considers the thought of getting together with you.

With this in mind, do you see why so many guys fail in trying to turn a friend to a girlfriend? They get overly involved in one category — by acting as her therapist and solving her problems (personal), feigning interest the same things that she’s interested in (social) or using work/school as an excuse to get close to her (professional).

Guys who get put in the friend zone approach women they’re interested in and unintentionally work themselves deep into a particular category — whether they’re aware of it or not!

If you want to have any chance of turning a friend to a girlfriend, then you need to:

1. Realize what category you’re currently in, and
2. Slowly work yourself into the romantic category

As soon as you realize that this is your mission, then everything should be downhill from there on.

In another article, we’ll discuss how to do just this, as well as the common mistakes that men make that make women nail them down to a certain category. For now, just realize that this is your main mission. Once you do, you’ll be ahead of the rest of the pack who have the same mission as you do.

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Well, I’m here to tell you that this is absolutely false.

I’m going to list 10 basic commandments that you should follow if you want to have any chance whatsoever of escaping the friend zone.

1.) Thou shall not approach her in hopes of being friends first. When you first meet a woman, you know instantly whether you’re interested in her or not. Decide right away and do not make the mistake of planting yourself down as a friend. Take bold actions and NEVER ask for permission to do anything — it is better to apologize later than to ask permission now.

2.) Thou shall not wait for the perfect moment to do something. As forward as women may be these days, rare is the instance when she will be the first one to make a move. You are the man, and men don’t wait for movie moments to make something happen. Many times, you will find that she is actually giving you the hints to make a move — signs that you are too oblivious to pick up on. He who hesitates masturbates.

3.) Thou shall not make your interest too obvious. Escaping the friend zone means being a flirt and making her lie awake at night trying to guess what it is you’re up to. Show interest, but at the same time let her know that you are a man who are interested in other females as well. This is what “playing the game” means.

4.) Thou shall not put all your eggs in one basket. She might be the girl of your dreams, but you cannot be sure if you’re hers. Start pursuing other options while “working” your magic on her. Not only will you increase the odds of getting in a great relationship, but you also make her jealous.

5.) Thou shall not always be available. Your idea of a good time must NOT be dependent on her availability. You are a man who has a life outside of her. Say no to her invitations and break a date every so often; lie if you must (but read next point).

6.) Thou shall not get caught in a lie. Yes, it’s important to actually be busy and having a good time and doing all sorts of fun activities without her, but it all falls into shambles if she catches you lying.

7.) Thou shall not be a Harmless man. You need to make her see you as a man with sexual value. In other words, you dress well, have social status, are desired by other women, and that you are a regular male who does not suppress (but rather expresses) his sexual energy. Human beings always want what they can’t have.

8.) Thou shall not change your good qualities. If you’re already friends with a woman, she already likes you for who you are. You just need to amplify certain traits of your personality — namely, your sexuality. You can’t turn into an absolute jerk if you’ve been Mr. Nice Guy your entire life — engage in flirtatious banter, but keeping it light and playful, never just cocky.

9.) Thou shall pay attention to what she RESPONDS to, not what she says. Women have a habit to say they want something, but respond to a completely other thing. That’s why most women will say that she wants a nice guy for a boyfriend, but always ends up dating a jerk. Instead, pay attention to the traits and qualities in a man that she positively responds to, and add that on to your arsenal.

10.) Thou shall not give up too soon. Persistence pays off in this game. We will never truly know ALL the reasons why women decide to be “just friends” with a man, but we try to cover as much of it as possible. Keep going until you see fit, and you will be escaping the friend zone in no time at all.

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